A 6-Month Coaching Program for Men Committed to Thriving in Intimate Relationship

Build a Passion-Filled Relationship You're Both Excited About

(Without sacrificing what matters most to you!)

Reclaim a Deep Connection

End Unnecessary Conflict

Foster Passionate Intimacy

Any of this sound familiar?

You're exhausted from ongoing conflicts that never get resolved

You both hold resentments that never get addressed

You walk on eggshells, tiptoeing around sensitive topics

It feels like there is “static” between you whenever you talk

Disagreements over little things explode into ridiculous fights

Your sex life has lost its spark or maybe you're just "roommates"

You often feel blamed and criticized (nothing you do is ever enough)

You're constantly trying to change one another

One or both of you often feels unseen, unheard, and unappreciated

You ignore what you really want just to keep the peace

You don't feel like you have each other's backs

Issues get swept under the rug only to resurface later

If so, Elevate Your Relationship is for you.

The truth about couples therapy

While we’re advocates for therapy, most couples are failed by couples therapy. Why? Because most therapists don’t know how to effectively (and respectfully) address the unique challenges men face in intimate relationships.

Too many men leave therapy sessions frustrated and confused, and still without useful clarity around what their wives and girlfriends actually want from them... and even less around what to do about it.

After 10 years of helping thousands of men and women build stronger, more loving relationships, here’s what we’ve found works:


Identify What (Actually) Needs to Change

You must get clarity around the deeper dynamics and patterns sabotaging your relationship. When you clearly see the unskillful, even damaging practices, habits, and patterns that aren’t serving you – or the relationship – now you can begin to shift those patterns.


Get a Practical, Step-By-Step Guide

Relationships are complex, and most support offered to men isn’t helpful. You need a simple strategy, a logical map to move you from your problems to your solutions – solutions that are practical to implement, easy to maintain, and address the core pillars of a thriving relationship.


Get Support and Accountability

When it comes to something as complex and delicate as a relationship, going it alone is a recipe for disaster. Having mentors to guide you through the work, and a community of men to support and celebrate you along the way, is vital to your long-term success.

You deserve to feel free, respected, and desired, physically and emotionally, in your relationship.

Take the next powerful step toward a healthier, thriving relationship

Includes everything you need. And nothing you don’t.

What you DO matters more than what you KNOW. While other programs overwhelm you with information, we equip you with only the essential skills that will genuinely make a difference, so you can get in, level up, and get back to feeling great in your relationship.
9 Video Modules

The module videos contain high-quality, research-based relationship training developed over years of coaching thousands of men and women in relationships. You can watch the videos at any time on your phone, tablet, or computer, and you will get lifetime access, ensuring you can brush up on strategies and tools any time you need to.

Live Mentorship Calls

At least three times a month, we’ll get together as a group on a 2-hour on a Zoom call. You’ll get direct, hands-on support to help you implement what you are learning, overcome challenges when they arise, and get feedback on your specific situation. You’ll also get powerful strategies, tools, and insights as I mentor other men on the call. All calls are recorded in case you cannot attend live.

6 Months of Support & Accountability

You’ll join a powerful community of other men working to elevate their own relationships. Doing this work alongside other men can help keep you accountable, ensuring you follow through on pursuing what you most desire. This is a place where you get to learn from other men’s successes, and their mistakes, too. And we’ll celebrate your wins here, as well.

Hot Button Bonus Trainings

This program only gets better with time, as we constantly add new worksheets and training to address specific issues brought to us by you and other men in the program. You’ll get access to these “Hot Button” trainings as soon as they drop into the program, ensuring you stay sharp no matter what issues arise in your relationship.

9 Core Focuses, 1 Key Outcome:

A Thriving Relationship


Stand In Your Power

Install new habits to create new daily patterns in your life and relationship that create the outcomes you’re longing for – a thriving life and relationship.


Elevate Your Thoughts

Break the negative and persistent thought patterns that are daily sabotaging you and preventing your relationship from succeeding.


Embrace Intimacy

Connect with what you feel, need, desire, and how to express that to your partner in ways that leave you feeling empowered and her feeling loved.


Unlock Her Heart

Care for your partner’s heart in a way that leaves her feeling safe, loved, and seen so she can relax and open herself up to you.


Create Safety & Trust

Eliminate power struggles, create a safe container for the relationship, and set healthy boundaries that foster clarity, trust, and true generosity.


End Unnecessary Conflict

Disagreements are inevitable. Knowing how to effectively navigate them when they arise, and to quickly repair when they get the best of you, can actually bring you closer rather than just tear you apart.


Open Your Heart

By opening our hearts to our partner – letting her in – in ways that don’t leave us feeling weak, needy, or like less of a man, we can deepen trust with her, and strengthen the bonds between us.


Ignite Erotic Tension

Harness the primal masculine and feminine differences between you and your partner to create the passionate intimacy and connection you both crave.


Cultivate Unbreakable Connection

End chronic conflict, dispassionate or nonexistent sex, relational stagnation, and persistent nagging by installing regular connection rituals into your relationship.

Get the guidance and support you need to build a thriving relationship


Watch the Video Training

You will know exactly where to begin and each week, you’ll access a new set of training videos that will teach you the key strategies you need to master in order to build a passionate, love-filled relationship.


Implement What You Learn

After watching the training, step-by-step exercises and practices will help you install proven tools, habits, and strategies into your life to help your relationship thrive.


Talk With Us & Get Support

Finally, at least three times a month we’ll connect for 2 hours on a live group coaching call together. You can ask us questions and we will provide guidance tailored to your specific relationship situation. You will be surrounded by two coaches and a community of men to ensure your success on this journey.

Are you ready to experience MORE in your relationship?

Feel safe and securely connected to each other

Resolve conflicts quickly in a way that leaves you both feeling amazing

Reignite sexual desire for each other as your emotional bond strengthens

Confidently share your truth and speak your mind

Things that would normally result in conflict won’t even be a blip on the radar

Share your feelings, needs, and desires in an empowering way

Enjoy a partner who is softer, more open, and deeply connected to you

Feel loved, admired, respected, and supported by her... and her by you!


Bryan Reeves and Tait Arend

Bryan and Tait offer a combined 20 years of coaching experience, supporting thousands of men, women, and couples at every stage of relationship, from dating to divorce.

Over the years, they have amassed a robust set of tools and strategies to help men overcome the challenges that often arise in committed relationships. These strategies have been discovered and refined through personal experience, and also though working with other top coaches, including David Deida, Terry Real, Michaela Boehm, Eckhart Tolle, and others.

Bryan and Tait have been featured in hundreds of podcasts, magazines, blogs including Thought Catalog, Raw Attraction Magazine, Knowledge For Men, and Allure Magazine.

Bryan’s relationship blog has amassed more than 30 million readers since 2012. His latest book, Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her), has gained more than 100 5-star reviews on Amazon.

Bryan and his wife, Silvy

Tait and his wife, Elsa

Men: Don’t pass this opportunity to build a thriving relationship

Experience more freedom in your relationship

Feel more desired, emotionally and physically

Be respected, seen, and appreciated, again

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