Too many men leave therapy sessions frustrated and confused, and still without useful clarity around what their wives and girlfriends actually want from them... and even less around what to do about it.
After 10 years of helping thousands of men and women build stronger, more loving relationships, here’s what we’ve found works:
You must get clarity around the deeper dynamics and patterns sabotaging your relationship. When you clearly see the unskillful, even damaging practices, habits, and patterns that aren’t serving you – or the relationship – now you can begin to shift those patterns.
Relationships are complex, and most support offered to men isn’t helpful. You need a simple strategy, a logical map to move you from your problems to your solutions – solutions that are practical to implement, easy to maintain, and address the core pillars of a thriving relationship.
When it comes to something as complex and delicate as a relationship, going it alone is a recipe for disaster. Having mentors to guide you through the work, and a community of men to support and celebrate you along the way, is vital to your long-term success.
The module videos contain high-quality, research-based relationship training developed over years of coaching thousands of men and women in relationships. You can watch the videos at any time on your phone, tablet, or computer, and you will get lifetime access, ensuring you can brush up on strategies and tools any time you need to.
At least three times a month, we’ll get together as a group on a 2-hour on a Zoom call. You’ll get direct, hands-on support to help you implement what you are learning, overcome challenges when they arise, and get feedback on your specific situation. You’ll also get powerful strategies, tools, and insights as I mentor other men on the call. All calls are recorded in case you cannot attend live.
You’ll join a powerful community of other men working to elevate their own relationships. Doing this work alongside other men can help keep you accountable, ensuring you follow through on pursuing what you most desire. This is a place where you get to learn from other men’s successes, and their mistakes, too. And we’ll celebrate your wins here, as well.
This program only gets better with time, as we constantly add new worksheets and training to address specific issues brought to us by you and other men in the program. You’ll get access to these “Hot Button” trainings as soon as they drop into the program, ensuring you stay sharp no matter what issues arise in your relationship.
Install new habits to create new daily patterns in your life and relationship that create the outcomes you’re longing for – a thriving life and relationship.
Break the negative and persistent thought patterns that are daily sabotaging you and preventing your relationship from succeeding.
Connect with what you feel, need, desire, and how to express that to your partner in ways that leave you feeling empowered and her feeling loved.
Care for your partner’s heart in a way that leaves her feeling safe, loved, and seen so she can relax and open herself up to you.
Eliminate power struggles, create a safe container for the relationship, and set healthy boundaries that foster clarity, trust, and true generosity.
Disagreements are inevitable. Knowing how to effectively navigate them when they arise, and to quickly repair when they get the best of you, can actually bring you closer rather than just tear you apart.
By opening our hearts to our partner – letting her in – in ways that don’t leave us feeling weak, needy, or like less of a man, we can deepen trust with her, and strengthen the bonds between us.
Harness the primal masculine and feminine differences between you and your partner to create the passionate intimacy and connection you both crave.
End chronic conflict, dispassionate or nonexistent sex, relational stagnation, and persistent nagging by installing regular connection rituals into your relationship.
You will know exactly where to begin and each week, you’ll access a new set of training videos that will teach you the key strategies you need to master in order to build a passionate, love-filled relationship.
After watching the training, step-by-step exercises and practices will help you install proven tools, habits, and strategies into your life to help your relationship thrive.
Finally, at least three times a month we’ll connect for 2 hours on a live group coaching call together. You can ask us questions and we will provide guidance tailored to your specific relationship situation. You will be surrounded by two coaches and a community of men to ensure your success on this journey.
MEET YOUR MENTORS
Bryan and Tait offer a combined 20 years of coaching experience, supporting thousands of men, women, and couples at every stage of relationship, from dating to divorce.
Over the years, they have amassed a robust set of tools and strategies to help men overcome the challenges that often arise in committed relationships. These strategies have been discovered and refined through personal experience, and also though working with other top coaches, including David Deida, Terry Real, Michaela Boehm, Eckhart Tolle, and others.
Bryan and Tait have been featured in hundreds of podcasts, magazines, blogs including Thought Catalog, Raw Attraction Magazine, Knowledge For Men, and Allure Magazine.
Bryan’s relationship blog has amassed more than 30 million readers since 2012. His latest book, Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her), has gained more than 100 5-star reviews on Amazon.
Bryan and his wife, Silvy
Tait and his wife, Elsa